Originally Posted by ORTech2RN
Hey everybody...36 year old guy here who is finally taking a shot at the nursing field. I've worked in Surgery the past six years as a Surgical Tech. I think maybe I woke up one morning and realized I wanted new challenges and learn some new things...or maybe I realized I could do as good as job as our OR nurses. Either way, I'm starting classes this Spring at Eastern Kentucky University. Since I already have an Bachelors Degree (basically unused), some of my prereqs are already knocked out. I only need Anatomy, Physiology, Microbiology, Chemistry and Nutrition..and then hopefully it's time to take on nursing school and the clinicals. I'm very excited about the challenges and the fact that my life will be transformed in just 2 or 3 years from now. Since I have a family and make OK money as a tech, naturally I'm worried about how I can continue to provide for my wife and kids. My wife does work, but her salary of 35,000 a year isn't going to pay all the bills....so I'm brainstorming some ideas on when I can work during nursing school. I know most of you on this forums are currently going through school, so I would like to say good luck and hopefully we can all be posting on the other side of the board here in a couple of years when we are RN's.
I'm in that "brainstorming" mindset as well. Being a single dad, I get no support and do it all myself 7 days a week. Daycare runs over 10k a year so I can even work, even a modest reliable car (love my Hyundais) comes out to a couple hundred a month not including insurance.
It's definitely challenging, but I've welcomed it all. I felt an artificial need to "show off" any success before now. Now that I'm in school again, especially for something as promising as nursing and something that feels so natural. I don't mind moving back down to a cheaper car or downsizing and asking the kids to share a room til daddy graduates, etc.
In all honesty, if my experiences are reliable, you'll have a harder time convincing your SO to modify HER lifestyle. Hopefully it works out though