OldPhat,
I totally know what you mean about the IT attitude of "you're either with us or against us"...
A few years back I took a "break" from IT desktop support/telecom analyst to work in Human Resources (wanted to expand my skillset). It was the BEST career move I could make. I stayed with the same company (an insurance company) and even in the same location. I worked for one of the finest managers I had ever met, learned much (probably too much)

about human nature, and seriously developed my people/speaking/facilitating skills with the number of staff we have and all the training we did.
My IT collegues were HORRIFIED at my decision to leave.
Evidently IT is the "end all" for all careers humans are capable of. My co-workers could not fathom why I would EVER want to do anything other than IT!! I got some support, but mostly shock and dismay. "You're leaving IT...?" Yep...and learned more in a year in HR than 6 years in Systems.
Of course the Outsource train rolled through our building, and we sourced all our HR. But what a good year it was, so back to IT (but in a different department).
After 4 Reductions in Force, dodging the bullet each time, our company has finally been purchased by another ins company. Don't think I'll be dodging this time, and I DON'T WANT TO.
I want to be a nurse, and do something meaningful with the rest of my life. 10 years of corporate have shown me enough greed/politics/backstabbing to last a lifetime. I am taking pre-reqs in the Spring, then hopefully CNA in the summer, then LPN at the local CC in the fall. My wife has been wonderful in her support, and thankfully the kids love Top Ramen, since that's probably what we'll be eating for 3 years...
Cheers!