Well maybe that is her opinion, but mine is totally different! It doesn't matter if you are male or female. If you can take care of your patients and help out, who cares if you are a guy? I personally LOVE working with male nurses. There are 2 on in the ICU where I work midnights. Usually there are only 2 nurses on at night, and it is WONDERFUL when they are there to help lift heavy patients or deal with an extremely strong, combative OD patient. I work in a small community, but I will tell you that I would rather work a male nurse anyday who does his job than a female nurse who is lazy and sits on her butt!