I only have experience as a floor nurse receiving pt's from the er, and yes, we can be rude at times. My pet peeves are:
1. Receiving er's left and right before shift change
2. Receiving er's left and right after shift change
3. Receiving an er who has been down there for > 24hours and no one bother's to sign off orders before the patient has transferred
4. Receiving an er whose orders are messed up and having to call the er doc to clarify.....
5. Receiving a **%%$$ up report from the er nurse....."I don't know what the labs, vs, assessment is....I just took over and am only transferring the pt!"
6. Finally starting off with a half decent team of patients, only to receive a train wreck from the er!
I know you all are busy and we are busy and there really is no excuse to be mean, but nursing is really stressful and most times we give others a hard time because we are having a %%&&$$ day.

So if you ever get any crap from me, just tell me to chill out because the daysoon will be a memory...........