Make sure you are looking at the actual flash chamber when starting an 18. Maybe I am the only dork that had this problem..... When I was new I thought I sucked at 18's because I never could even get a flash, then realized that you can't see the blood travel into the cannula like you can in the smaller gauge, and I actually WAS getting a flash!

(At least with the style we use.)
I also agree that I have to float in my 18's more often than the smaller gauge.
And, pretty much like anything else IV related, it's all about practice and getting the feel for it. Just start an 18 on anyone who has the veins for it and needs a bolus.