Just to clarify...The quote in post #12 is not my story. The only part of that quote that's mine is, "p.s. open heart nurses are
still the "cream of the crop!" and ".....as are all nurses in their chosen specialty!

" I think it was just a posting error.
So sorry to hear about your family's experience Figo. That RN in the CVICU was WRONG, plain and simple. I would have complained to the supervisor for sure. At this point, you could still write a letter and you should.
For the first few hours following extubation, I continue to give IV (instead of PO) pain meds for a couple of reasons. One is that the patient may not be swallowing very well yet and another is that I GUARANTEE you that a patient just extubated who is given anything PO, especially the amount of water it would take to swallow two tablets, WILL THROW UP.
Your dad's gag reflex was fine...he was talking right? You had a terrible experience with a terrible nurse. Please don't relate that experience to all of us!