I had been out of school and had my license for several months, when I was asked by my DON if I wanted to train to be an ICU nurse. I jumped at the opportunity, for I had done med-surg for years and was becoming bored with it. Anyway, I had no sooner started working in the Unit and was getting my feet wet, when they began pulling me to the Newborn Nursery. At first I didn't mind, but when this became an everyday occurence, I complained to the DON who asked me to train. "I can go home and change my
own son's diapers", I told her. Though she agreed, she said there was nothing she could do, as this was taking place at a Sister facility and she had no authority to stop the DON there from utilizing me as she pleased. The last straw came when I was ordered to do mandatory OT, despite the fact that my husband was out of town on business and I had no one to pick up our son from day care.
I quit after that. It was a shame, for I had worked for the same hospital system for over seven years. But I refused to be used and abused, for not only was I not being trained for the job my DON had approved me for, but I was also being forced to make a choice between working mandatory OT and caring for my son. I chose the latter.