Right, i have just got home from my first day on the wards which was brilliant and i loved every moment apart from one. Im working on a 'care of the elderly' ward and most of the patients need help to wash or are totally unable to do it themselves. Well today the 2nd patient that i have 'EVER' cared for needed a bedbath. This gentleman was well built and tall-I am short-I was with another nurse (a fairly high up nurse, Sister) and when we had to place the gentleman in his chair she placed her arms under his armpit (axila) and heaved him off the bed and then complained when i didnt help her lift him. Ive been told that this is assult and can cause serious injury to both patient and nurse by my university and the moving and handling people.
She left me to tidy up and went behind a curtain and proceded to ***** about me not doing any work. Im actually quite upset by this as this woman is my mentor
What do i do? Do i lift and risk damaging my back/hurting the patient or do i risk annoying the staff?