[MOOSEMAN]

I say yes. Have had good outcomes with family being present.

[margaretptz]

I was present when my husband coded, I was the one who actually started CPR. I was a bit hysterical when the EMT arrived and was instructing a new EMT intubating him, It wasn't going easy and unthnkingly I kept trying to tell them he has a stent iin his esophagus. They threatened to make me leave and I became quiet,rode in the ambulance to the hospital with him and after a brief registration process I was allowed back in the room. This was an army hospital. I think they would have had a very hard time trying to keep me out I needed to be there and was able to give them permission to stop even though I know it was only a formality, it helped. I think if the family wants to be present their wishes should be respected.

Margaret

[traumaRUs]

Oh Margaret - my heart goes out to you. You are so right that you should be there. Take care.