Originally Posted by cscott1
I suppose that all I'm saying is let's remember that all of (including my self) have made bad choices and stupid mistakes. Lets not be too quick to judge and condem. After all the truth between an inmates version and the courts may lie some where in the middle.
Great post.
I might add that people can soft-pedal their own misdeeds by pointing at other people - we gotta remember that we all, to some degree, have faults and have hurt other people in one way or another. For example, I sure would not assume that "all inmates are dishonest in all ways" but I also wouldn't assume that "all nurses are honest in all ways". And etc.
I am glad that you can treat them with a little dignity and respect - after all it's your attitude that might get them to start looking at how life COULD be ... how they COULD change ... they may end up sharing something w/ you that could actually enable you to help them.
Yes my personality test indicates that I am an idealist, LOL - oh well
"We all make choices in life and sometimes they are not good choices. As a result we must deal with the consequences of our choices whether bad or good and sometimes the consequences are prison. Now is a good time to take the steps to learn from the past and start learning to make choices that won't land you in prison if you get out. We have many programs to help you with this if you're interested you can kite mental health for the programs and we can work with you on these issues".
That sounds awesome!
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