Re: How do I rest after my supervisor noticed another major mistake before I did?
Number one: Don't beat yourself up! You'll never forget to check urine output on a post-surgical patient again!
Number two: You are a new nurse. Patricia Benner described the stages of a new nurse in "From Novice to Expert". You WILL transition from task-oriented to big-picture. I think that more experienced nurses forget how it was.
To any managers reading this:
THIS IS YOUR OPPORTUNITY to mentor, not eat a new nurse. If you give them the evil eye every time you see the newbie, you are just going to increase their anxiety level.
You (I'm talkin' to YOU, nurse manager) could assign an experienced nurse to work with this nurse on occasion, "round" with the new nurse, discuss common pitfalls, etc.
I think is it SHAMEFUL how new nurses are thrown to the wolves these days.
And to the original poster, hang in there. I was pretty clueless when I got out (I'm not saying you are clueless, just that I wasn't "on top of my game") and I have progressed, and am now in an MSN program, have a specialty nurse job, and am well respected.
Randy Pausch said,
"Brick walls are there for a reason. The brick walls are not there to keep us out. The brick walls are there to show how badly we want something. Because the brick walls are there to stop the people who don’t want something badly enough. They are there to keep out the other people. "
Keep the faith, all you newer nurses!
Oldiebutgoodie
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