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  1. Which hijab (scarf) to wear?

    • "easy - on" No pins!
    • Pins are ok!

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Hi all! In order to ask the question I must "out" myself. I'm muslim and wear a scarf to cover my hair. It has never been an issue in acute or ambulatory settings, beyond a little patient or staff curiosity. I am about to start as a new nurse in a level 1 trauma center ED (Woot!!!!) I have done a liiiiittle bit of time in ED's before and have seen some madness, but never a personal attack. I have been threatened before in critical care, but again, never attacked.

So, muslims and non-muslims in ED - It was brought up by a family member that the way I wear my scarf (wrapped around my head with two tiny sewing style pins on each side) could be used as a weapon (pin to the head). It was suggested that I wear the "easy - on" style which is like two separate "head socks" you pull your head through.

My logic is, a demented patient will use whatever is around if they want to get violent. The "easy on" style could be a source to get strangled, as would a stethoscope, manual pressure monitor cord.... you get the picture (sorry to be morbid). I like wearing the pinned style because it doesn't interfere with using my stethoscope and I get a little variety in what I wear.

What do you think? Wear what I want or wear the cautious, boring hijab (scarf)?

Specializes in Skilled Nursing/Rehab.

I agree with sandyfeet - perhaps save the beautiful, more complicated scarves for off-work hours. Safety aside, anything we wear to work is in danger of getting soiled and/or contaminated with scary germs!

I know NOTHING of this other than my neighbor wears one and I always think it makes her look more glamorous, exotic and so GORGEOUS!!!!

The pin-style seems like it would fall off easier and fall away if a pt were to pull on it (no strangulation) than the sock type one.

*sigh* I just think they look so pretty! I saw a NICU resident wearing the pin-type one once...but I don't think anything more than barf would get on it in her situation.

Posting from my phone, ease forgive my fat thumbs! :)

I first want to say that I am sorry that so many people don't understand Islam and think that every.single.Muslim wants to kill them and start a holy war. I used to live in Detroit, and I was in Dearborn the day that Bagdad fell. I couldn't get anywhere for all the residents driving around, rejoicing and waving American flags. I think it was awful that the news didn't report that. Everyone was so quick on news stories about the few residents that were running scams to fund terrorists, but no one reported the positive stories. I think it takes a lot of guts to stand up for what you believe in despite the derision and threats of violence. I'm sorry you have to deal with that.

I sew, and I was wondering if you could make the "easy-ons" with hidden velcro. You could layer the two so the velcro openings weren't in the same place. But it would make them *break-away* in case someone wanted to use them to hurt you.

For the pinned ones, could you use bobby pins (used for holding hair back) or hair clips? Many of them can be made decorative and add some more style to your more plain work head covering.

Specializes in Family practice, emergency.

@ somewhereincarolina, thanks for your kind words! There's not a lot of patience and understanding with Muslims right now, it's so nice to meet people with open minds and hearts! That is a really good idea about the velcro. I haven't sewn in a while but that is worth taking a shot at!

I first want to say that I am sorry that so many people don't understand Islam and think that every.single.Muslim wants to kill them and start a holy war. I used to live in Detroit and I was in Dearborn the day that Bagdad fell. I couldn't get anywhere for all the residents driving around, rejoicing and waving American flags. I think it was awful that the news didn't report that. Everyone was so quick on news stories about the few residents that were running scams to fund terrorists, but no one reported the positive stories. I think it takes a lot of guts to stand up for what you believe in despite the derision and threats of violence. I'm sorry you have to deal with that..[/quote']

Couldn't agree more^

Specializes in Critical Care, ED, Cath lab, CTPAC,Trauma.
@ somewhereincarolina, thanks for your kind words! There's not a lot of patience and understanding with Muslims right now, it's so nice to meet people with open minds and hearts! That is a really good idea about the velcro. I haven't sewn in a while but that is worth taking a shot at!
They actually have velcro tape in sewing/fabric stores......:)
Specializes in Family practice, emergency.

Perhaps I'll invent a break away, easy on, easy wash hijab, get famous for it and then work a 9-5 ;) I'll be sure to send royalties to allnurses.com, lol.

Salaam, May I ask how you wear your hijab with the pins? I am a Practical Nursing Student and I need a way to wear the hijab in order for me to use a stethoscope effectively... please help :)

Specializes in Family practice, emergency.

Wa alaikum as salaam (may peace be upon you) sister! Lately I've taken to using bobby pins to secure the scarf on the back of my head instead of pinning under the chin, then wrapping around and side-securing with another bobby pin. It works best with thickish cotton or jersey. It's not as clean looking as pins, but I can get the stethoscope in and out easily, and readjust really fast mid-shift!.

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