Re: incontinent NH pts
Well now I've gone and made myself sound like a heartless soul, right? Not my intention. Luckily, I have never refused to change someone, I understand that it must be an awful feeling for someone to feel. I've helped to take someone to the restroom who can't hold themselves up and can't wipe themselves and needs to be physically supported (by 3 of us) for 20 minutes while trying to go. It sucks. I know it must suck to have to go and not be able to as well. But what about losing 45 minutes of your treatment due to having to go? Being taken off, getting extra NS, being hoisted and huffed and lifted and slid and made to feel worse just to get on the toilet?
I'll stop. I guess there is no way to agree on this one. I know that I would want to be changed, too.
Going back and thinking about it, I've gone about this response all wrong. I have never refused to take someone to the restroom. I make 10000% sure that they really have to go before I start the process of rinseback, taping down lines, etc. I make sure I get help to lift them.
I guess my original response was thinking back to the nightmares of that poor lady who always called on us to take her at the worst moment, then she ended up doing nothing after a 30-minute struggle. Whether she just wanted attention or what, it definitely was a pain in the neck. Every single time. And it hurt so much because she was so sweet but by the end she was so miserable and just wanted to end it but her daughter wasn't ready to let go. This whole situation made us miserable, too. Just bad for everyone.
I guess what I should have originally said was that I have never refused a changing or a trip to the potty. I have never had to change someone out on the floor. If it came to that, I would no doubt do what I had to do. I could never knowingly allow someone to lie helpless in feces. I am not one for making someone suffer or feel embarrassed over something uncontrollable. Everyone uses the bathroom. No one should be forced to sit dirty for 4 hours. That opens the whole decubitus can 'o worms.
If it was my nanny in a dialysis chair, you can bet I'd be calling CMS if I found out she wasn't being treated humanely.
My apologies for offending anyone.
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