ICU RN

Hi everyone, hope you're all well. I am an rn with over 19 years experience in icu and now i will be relocating to California in San Francisco or San Diego or Loma Linda. I would like to know if you could counsel me as to which of these places would be the best place to live and work. I have a 26 year old daughter with her son 2 years old and my wife, she is a stay home mom and grandma. Thank you very much for your input.