Just a curious question.. as there seems to be a lot of that going on in my jail...Love to hear your comments or stories..
Oct 10, '07
There definitely are married nurses having affairs with married CO's in my institution. It's one big soap opera.
I really don't care what they do but, when they're wasting time flirting with their boyfriends instead of getting the work done and it all falls on me, I get pretty annoyed with it all.
Last edit by Sheri257 on Oct 18, '07
Oct 19, '07
it is emtremely easy to fall into that trap of falling for an officer at work...after all, you spent a great amount of time at your facility especially if there's a lot of overtime/mandating of shifts. flirtations make the day go by a little easier & faster, but remember these key points: 1. the bulk of the officers are mostly looking for some "bragging rights" and a slap on the back from their male co-workers, 2. there are "no secrets" in jail, so if you think you are going to have a "quiet relationship" with another staffer...think again. the people around you will pick up on the affair, or attraction, and it you will be outted before you know it. 3. if you are looking for advancement in your facility, don't do it! management gets wind of these affairs, too. all you're going to do is ruin your credibility for your future. 4. hardly ever will anything serious come out of an illicit relationship with an officer. and when it ends, as most of them do, you'll be left looking like an easy mark for the other officers to "come on" to. think before you drop your pants! do you want the whole institution to know how you like your sex? i know a nurse that has (supposedly) slept with about 1/2 dozen officers, and her rep is ruined irregardless. did she actually have sex with all of them? probably not, but maybe at least one or two of them. do you think the other ones she dated are going to let the guys know they didn't get a home run off her, too? that's the way it goes in corrections...we have a saying where i work, it's not the dept. of corrections...it's the "dept. of connections". very bad idea...........................
Last edit by bighousenurse on Oct 19, '07
: Reason: forgot a word...