Advice needed on nursing path!!!! Please&Thanks!!!!!!

Hello all!!

I need some advice, Im going crazy trying to decide! So here is my dilemma: I started my undergraduate in nursing but didn't get into the professional program at my school but got on an "alternative list" (basically waiting list) because my grades were good enough but there was a professor shortage. Well I didn't want to sit on my behind and waste money waiting (I go to school out of state.From CO. Go to school in AZ)....so I changed my minor of Family and Human Development into my major and am graduating this May, 2009..........Well I still want to be a nurse. I got accepted in to Scottsdale Community colleges accelerated program for ADN (16 months). I also got accepted into two Denver schools for accelerated BSN. I don't care if I move back to Colorado or stay in AZ for now. My question is.... should I go to the community college and get my ADN. It only costs 6,000 and I heard that when your a starting RN, it doesn't matter if you have a ADN or a BSN. It only matters when you want to continue in your career (to management..ect.). Is this true? If it is true then I could become and RN and start working and then go back when I am more stable with money to to a RN to BSN program and possibly get my employer to pay for it. Or.....should I just do an accelerated BSN program (program for people who already have their bachelors in something else). They are very expensive (30,000-40,000) and I heard they are very difficult. But it is only a couple more months then the ADN (one is 21 months, another is 18 months). However I'm not sure I really want to rack on that much in student loans if an RN with ADN is basically the same. Any advise would be amazing!!!!!! Im going crazy!! Oh also another tidbit on making my dicision even harder....my long term boyfriend who moved here with me is moving back to CO (home) in Dec. So if I stayed in AZ , we would have to do a year long distance. Boo! But I have to do what I have to do! THANKS!!!!