Re: One of those nights!!!!!!!!!!
Does seem like she has a double standard.
I had a mean coworker (LPN) who everyone feared. She said something behind my back (I didn't give a pt a new straw with a water pitcher - just report me to state!). I found out about it and told her in private that I don't care what she says - I don't need nor want her friendship.
Since then she has treated me wth respect and we have come to know each other well. Some people have tough personalities and you have to stand up to them first before they will respect you.
Maybe she is burned out, hates her job, stressed or all three. Next time ask her what her problem is (nicely). I have asked nurses who
never help out if their hands are painted on and the paint is still wet but I wouldn't recommend doing that.
I've been an aide for 6 years and before I was this shy meek little girl. This job has made me more outspoken and more sure of myself. But that comes with time and standing up for yourself bit by bit.
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