Goodness thats even worse than my pity party. Im just young, but youve even been through so much and people are still tell you youre not experienced enough. I made an entire thread about this whole experience thing, figure we cant be the only ones out there. You're a wonder women! I dont think I could do all that, having a husband, dog, cat, parents, and in-laws are a lot for me right now haha. The only thing close to experience similar to nursing home patients is I worked at a day care. I cared for children from the age of 1 month to 12 years old. So I too have been peed on, pooped on, puked on, snotted on, vomited on, etc.
You need experience.
Here is the link to the experience thread, maybe we can get some info on this problem!