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But that goes both ways too.
Some surgeons are rude to nurses as are some nurses rude to surgeons.
Personally, it does not bother me when a surgeon is rude with me because I have enough backbone to not take it and to let the surgeon know that I do not appreciate the rudeness. And no, for the most part, that usually does not make the surgeon change his/her attitude, but it does make him/her check themselves when they are in their mood and dealing with me.
What does bother me is when my fellow RN, someone that I'm in the trenches with day in and day out (usually, but not always, one from the old school) tries to degrade me or make me feel inadequate because during report, I do not know what my patient's potassium level was last week at 2330. This is only one example, I have more, but I bet you do too.
I've been roaming the halls at my hospital for about 9 years now, and I make it a point to be as encouraging and open as possible to new nurses as well as the older heads. Especially when I'm asked the "how" and "why" patient related issues. Constructive criticism works well when it is given with the right tone during the right situation. Anyway, that's my 2 cents.
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