Dustin,
I applaud your ambition and only wish I was that focused in HS!
I think shadowing your relative who is a CRNA is a great idea. You may also want to shadow another CRNA from your relative's group to get exposure to different anesthetists techniques. Most CRNAs would be happy to have someone shadow them that is interested in the profession. Go for it.
Your grades are excellent. Keep it up! As far as ADN vs BSN, I think you should do whatever suits your needs. Getting the BSN done is great so you do not have to go back to school when you get a job. You can then take some extra science classes like Organic Chem and Physics that you will not get in the BSN program while you are getting the required experience.
On the other side, if you get an ADN, you can be working in an ICU in 2+ years, making decent money and getting experience. During that time you will have to do a RN-BSN program and maybe even some extra science courses.
I think in the end, it really doesn't matter because either way, you will need a BS or BSN (BSN gives you more options) and at least 1 year of critical care experience.
You should not have any problem getting into ICU as a new grad if you live near hospitals with good orientation programs. I suggest working as a Nurse extern while in school so you can get in the door. Most ICUs will hire the students who do externships in the unit and who prove to be hard workers.
My suggestions:
1. Keep working hard in school and keep up your grades.
2. Finish your BSN (by whichever route suites you best).
3. Find a job in an ICU while in school.
4. Take extra science courses.
5. MOST IMPORTANT... Have fun!!! You are young, so enjoy it. Work hard in school, at work, and at having fun! Find a good balance between fun/partying and school/work. If you live life to get the most out of it, you will not have any regrets. These skills of finding balance in your life will help you succeed in undergrad, CRNA school, and in life. Good luck.
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