Forane, I understand what you mean, though I am sure you didn't mean to offend anyone else with your comments, right?
Sometimes you work very hard to achieve a place in life where one would think you deserve a little respect. I know I can feel that way sometimes. The thing is, not everybody thinks the way we do. I did think a lot about this before entering school (am an SRNA), and came to the realization that one of my reasons for wanting to be a CRNA was for a level of respect that...sometimes nurses don't always get. Then I got a little depressed (!) because I knew that the degree or position wasn't going to get me that. After a good hard look at myself, I thought I needed to not worry about the respect level I did or didn't have....that was more about who I thought I was, rather than who other people thought I was. And life is better...not always easy...I still clench my teeth sometimes when someone makes a dumb comment like that person did to you...but I remind myself I don't have anything to preserve, nothing to protect, just a patient to deliver good care to. The thing is, the people who blatantly show disrespect are going to do that anyway, no matter who you are. The people who value you as a person and a clinician will respect you no matter what. Just a way of life. BTW, I've been down the road in a few career paths...and its the same all over! Been an RN since 1981, and have seen respect and appreciation for nurses rise dramatically. So, go get em....have fun, enjoy life, and be the best anesthesia provider you can be.
PS...had a friend (MDA), who replied to my question..."what do you think of me applying to CRNA school?"...by saying "well, that's ok, I guess...you can probably make a fair living - 50-60K a year....but there's one thing. They want to be doctors...and they are NOT!" I said, "D___, what the hell made you think I want to be a doctor? I'm a NURSE...try and understand the difference, buddy!" He's a good guy, and a friend, but still a little clueless.
Sorry for the long post. Good luck.
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