The elephant in the room - relationships between CNM and L&D nurses

I work with a group of 3 very popular CNMs run a birthing center and have hospital privs. They are no longer taking hospital birth clients and only using the hospital for transfers because the staff treats them like cr#p. (The aforementioned eye rolling, ignoring orders, etc.) The lead CNM for this practice says she worked in other states and was treated very respectfully. It depends on your state. Here CNMs aren't in the doctor club. I can't believe that the nurses would side with the docs and that there is no sisterhood in nursing. Makes me sick. I definitely will choose carefully where I go to work.