california RN/military fiancee.

i am a navy fiancee, about to get married... tried taking nclex RN two times, failed in state of PA... im hoping to get my license soon before i get married and have to move to california, san diego. does anyone know any nursing schools that have easy BSN programs? maybe online?... im been so frusterated with this nclex RN test that im about to tear all my hair out! i dont have any children, so one might ask why its taking me so long to get my license. im also enrolled in BSN program at a school in PA which allows u not having ur license fall semester.. but i have to drop out in december by spring semster if i dont have my RN. i dont know what to do. life is just passing me by and i dont even have my RN! my fiancee is in japan in the navy and then were heading to either california or FL. what if i have to take NCLEX RN in california? is that easier?

any help would be appreciated