Originally Posted by darla80 how did it go laura??
hold fast to your strengths ... Docs like this can be so glib ..they sometimes fluster us out of our issues..
Darla
Well, yesterday I was at work and he came back into my office, closed the door and said "We have to talk." He then launched into a long monologue saying that he felt that he had to be aggressive with me because he found me to be arrogant at first. (I'm not and he even admitted that I'm not) In other words, he was trying to make me feel defensive....it didn't work. I let him finish then I told him that I don't have an issue with his requests. I told him that had he come to me calmly, all this would have been averted. Instead he came with fists flying. He wanted a fight, he got one. Anyway, he appologized and we "made up." And he was
realy nice to me after that. A little later the office manager asked me if he had spoken to me, I said yes. She then informs me that she told him that I was thinking of filing a formal complaint.

He's done this before with other staff and not many people have complained. He picked a fight with the wrong person I guess.
I'm just glad it's over. There's already a lot of stress at work and I didn't need this. Over the last few months things have been spinning out of control in terms of work load and morale. All the departments are feeling it and it just seems to me that everyone is mad at us nurses....including the patients. I'm looking around for other options. If something better comes along, I'm gone.
Laura
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