Re: Anyone an addictions nurse?
It's not easy but it's an excellent field. These people are street smart and manipulative but it's easy to win their trust if you've got some experience, strength and hope.
Best thing to do is start hitting 12 step meetings to learn the lingo and really, really get in to it. The 12 steps could apply to anything that feels unmanageable in your life; the funny things is it works (almost scary like magic it works). It's a very spiritual program (not religious) so the main thing and the entire purpose of the 12 steps is to reconnect people with their higher power (as opposed to a substance or unhealthy focus which used to be their higher power).
One of the first things is Post Acute Withdrawal Syndrome (PAWS) which is exhibited by forgetfulness, severe sometimes mood swings, sexual arousal/desire (look out for that-they've been numbed now they're body is awake so they're lookin for "some" both male and female alike).
I don't sweat the deaths; they serve as a reminder to the living that it only works if you work it. I've lost many many many patients, friends, family but what can i do about that? How many die in the ICU when I was working there?
I love the field but you CANNOT be a codependent or it will throw the unit out of balance and you will find yourself being the focus of a lot of chaos. It's weird how therapeutic community treatment can identify everyone's problems.
Patients call me on my stuff just like I call them on theirs. It's very different and when a patient rightfully calls me on a fault (if they're right) I congratulate them for their insight and tell them to feel free to continue but also look at themselves. We have a good time amidst the combat, manipulation, drama, sex, deaths...
It's a field like no other and it will typically be extremely dysfunctional amidst the miracles going on. Every unit will need those who understand addiction and its symptoms well. It's a very interesting field and very rewarding (I helped one homeless guy...outside work...get a car, get a job now he owns a house). It's different cause you may very well be friends with a patient who comes in. Remember confidentiality!
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